Paying for the perfect prom

(Updated: Thursday, May 1, 2008 10:36 AM CDT)

Erin Coggins, Madison Record

It's been a staple in the lives of high school students since the 1920s. And although it has been transformed from the high school gymnasium to large banquet rooms it is still considered a rite of passage for today's teenagers. It's prom.

Prom season has hit. Bob Jones High School held its prom in early April, East Limestone High School hosted their prom a couple of weeks ago and Sparkman High School will celebrate its big night on May 10.

With prom come major expenses.Sparkman senior John White and his girlfriend junior Haley Herfurth have not held back in their prom spending this year.Between dresses, tux rental, dinner in a private room at Cantina Laredo and limo rental, the couple is spending somewhere around $1,000.

"You only get to go once or twice in your entire life and the memories last a lifetime so why not go all out?" Haley said.

However, Sparkman senior Nik Markopolous and his girlfriend, senior Miranda Dollarhide, decided to go frugal.

"I am saving money for college which I am going to need when I go to Auburn this fall, so I am cutting where I can," Miranda said.

To eliminate unneeded costs, Nik and Miranda will be grilling steaks with their friends at Nik's home.

"We just wanted to work around our own schedule. And by eating at home you do not have to worry about the food not being right," Nik said.

Miranda went for a classic dress from Belk and shoes that she already had in her closet. She plans to purchase minimal jewelry for around $20.

"I plan to buy a pair of pearl earrings to go with my classic look," Miranda said.

Together the couple plans to spend around $400.

The perfect prom for less

Many things about prom have remained unchanged throughout the years. They're still a big social deal for students and often a rite of passage. But one thing about proms that has changed considerably is the cost of attending.

Recent polls by Your Prom magazine found that across the country the average cost couples spend on prom prep and attendance is $1,000. Surprisingly, the guys spend a touch more than the ladies, perhaps due to those who are being chivalrous and footing the cost of their date's ticket.

As prices continue to rise, many enterprising students are making attempts to curb costs. It's easier than you might think.

Attire Guys can get good deals on tuxedo rentals, but do ladies need to spend big bucks on prom dresses? The answer is no. Consider renting a dress (yes, it can be done). After all, you're only wearing it once. Also, many communities have dress swaps, where ladies can exchange gowns they already have in their closets from formal occasions, such as weddings and other school functions, with others. For example, The Pink Zebra Boutique in Bonner Springs, KS recently sponsored "Operation Prom Dress" allowing donations of gently worn dresses and shoes.

Flowers A corsage and boutonniere are customary at prom. Save some money by choosing flowers that are in season rather than exotic blooms. Boutonnieres are easy to make, and with a little elastic and some fresh-cut flowers, even a low-cost corsage can be crafted.

Transportation Because demand can raise prices of limousines and other rentals, try to book in advance to bargain for the best deal. Also, consider options outside of limousines. Party buses or towncars might be a more economical option. Going in a group also brings down the cost as more people will be chipping in toward the price of the ride.

Faux Tan: Many girls and guys drop a fortune on tanning salon visits prior to prom night. The reality is that tanning booths are no safer for the skin than baking in the sun, so skipping the tan altogether is an easy way to save cash. If you desire a golden glow at a cheaper price, consider artificial tan creams and sprays from your local pharmacy chain. Many cosmetic manufacturers also offer bronzing creams and powders that provide the sun-kissed color desired. According to members of iVillage, the top three bronzers available are Mary Kay Bronzing Beads, BeneFit Glamazon, and Bobby Brown Essentials Bronzing Powder.

Hair and Makeup: Salons are often the first choice for prom makeovers, if budget allows. For those looking to shave a few dollars here and there, choose the salon for hair and do manicures and pedicures at home. Also, consider beauty schools as an inexpensive way to have your hair and makeup done. The student gets the practice and you get the look you desire at a fraction of the cost. Also, don't rule out cosmetic retailers at the department stores. Often you can get a free cosmetic application with the purchase of some products.

The After-Party: For many prom-goers the prom itself is only the start of the party. Many rent hotel rooms or other spaces to extend the fun. But these can be costly - even more so if party crashers arrive and potentially cause trouble and drive up the bill. Opt for budget-friendly options, such as having a get-together at someone's house or building a bonfire at a beach (if this is allowed). Or end the prom with the prom. Your parents will probably thank you for it and you'll save money in the process.

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